By Chioma Nwamah-Ahamefula
February, often dubbed the month of love thanks to Saint Valentine, is a time when we celebrate kindness, care, and forgiveness. But love isn’t just about romance or gifts; it’s about our ability to forgive, accept differences, and live harmoniously with one another.
In Nigeria and many other places, neighboring communities often find themselves embroiled in disputes over land boundaries. Sadly, these conflicts can spiral into violence, property destruction, and even loss of life. It’s especially heartbreaking when these disputes arise among people who share a common heritage, culture, language, and even familial bonds. When siblings quarrel over land, progress halts, trust erodes, and the community suffers.
However, if these communities embrace true love, the story can take a different turn. Instead of hostility, we can foster dialogue. Rather than confrontation, we can seek negotiation. Love paves the way for peaceful conversations and mutual understanding. It encourages communities to engage in mediation and allows government entities to fulfill their roles with fairness and transparency.
In the administration of Prof. Charles Chukwuma Soludo CFR, the Anambra State Boundary Committee has made significant strides in tackling boundary disputes among communities. Since this administration took office, the Anambra State Boundary Committee (SBC), led by Deputy Governor Dr. OnyekaChukwu Ibezim, who also chairs the committee, has worked tirelessly to promote peaceful coexistence in areas previously plagued by disputes. This effort not only fosters harmony among neighboring communities but also encourages sustainable economic development, dialogue, and fairness.
Many communities facing boundary challenges are often tied together through marriage, kinship, and long-lasting relationships. Practicing love, especially during this meaningful month, helps to strengthen these connections. When communities are peaceful and united, they tend to attract investors, government initiatives, and infrastructure development, all of which play a crucial role in boosting economic growth and enhancing living standards.
Community leaders, religious figures, youth organizations, and civil society groups all have important roles to fulfill. They need to actively promote reconciliation and work hand in hand with the Anambra State Boundary Committee to effectively carry out its mission of fostering peace and love among neighboring communities and clans. At the same time, it’s essential for communities to stay alert against land grabbers and unscrupulous developers who might take advantage of tensions for their own benefit.
Ultimately, this month of love should go beyond personal affection and evolve into a season of harmony among neighboring communities, clans, quarters, and even families. Let’s encourage communities to reach out to one another. Let’s inspire the youth to turn away from violence. Let’s have elders share their wisdom and guidance rooted in peace. True love is brave; it pushes us to put aside our pride and embrace understanding for the sake of peace.
May this February be a turning point for communities grappling with boundary disputes. When love leads the way, understanding follows, and everyone stands to gain.
